I took 20 extra pounds to the park. On purpose.


Hi Reader ,

When did working on yourself start to feel like something you had to earn?

As if 30 minutes for you required a reason good enough to present to someone else first.

Physical movement is not a performance metric. It is not punishment for what you ate or a prerequisite for how you look.

It's a labour of self-love. One of the most direct ways available to tell your nervous system that you matter enough to show up for.

You do not need to earn that. Human physiology is hardwired for consistent, lifelong physical exertion.

The only thing standing between you and 30 minutes for yourself is the permission you have not yet given yourself to take it.

Published June 2 in the British Journal of Sports Medicine, this Harvard T.H. Chan analysis tracked roughly 147,000 adults over up to thirty years, with much of the data coming from women. It found that 90 to 119 minutes of strength training weekly was associated with:

  • a 13% lower risk of death from any cause
  • a 19% lower cardiovascular risk
  • a 27% lower risk of death from neurological conditions including dementia and Parkinson’s.

Ninety minutes is just three 30-minute sessions. Bodyweight counts. Resistance bands count. Building gradually beats doing a lot at once. The dose is not really the obstacle, is it?

This week, when my son wanted to go to the park, I put two five-pound dumbbells and a ten-pound kettlebell in a bag and carried them to the playground.

For the 30 minutes he played on the swing and hung from the monkey bars, I did 3 sets of kettlebell swings, weighted lunges, and weighted leg extensions off a picnic bench. I was sweating like a sinner in a church. On our way home, a woman sitting on a bench gave me a nod of approval.

I have spent a lot of hours on that bench watching my son play. I had been treating that time as if it belonged to someone else. It did not. And neither does yours.

You do not need to earn the thirty minutes. They are already yours for the taking.

Until next time, scroll intentionally.



Dr. Dominika Zarzeczny

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Hi! I'm Dr. Dominika Zarzeczny, ND

First inspired by the work of Dr. Gabor Mate, Dr. Dominika has focused much of her career on helping her patients connect the dots between early adversity and trauma and their impact on lifelong health and well-being. She knows that the reversal of chronic illness involves the nervous system, and so she has dedicated her practice to helping patients master their own nervous system to positively influence their mind and body, behaviours and ultimately health outcomes. Her explanation of disease doesn't pathologize or blame, but is nuanced, humanized and filled with hope. She trained with various psychologists and experts in the field of psychological trauma. She incorporates the principles of neuroscience, attachment theory, mindfulness, Polyvagal Theory and compassionate inquiry in her approach with patients. Combining these with her naturopathic training, she likes to say that she works at the intersection of science and human experience.

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