Are Your Aches And Pains Just A Part Of Getting Old?


Are Your Aches And Pains Just A Part Of Getting Old?

Very few things get under my skin like hearing someone say their body is simply "breaking down with age", as if crossing the "40" threshold means falling off some imaginary cliff.

The honest answer to the question I hear most - "are the ailments I'm feeling over 40 the result of being over 40? - is no.

Age is a risk factor, not a verdict. Much of what gets written off as "just getting older" is the visible end of something we can actually measure and change the direction of. When we frame symptoms as inevitable, we teach ourselves we are victims of our circumstances - in this case, aging.


Are Aging And Disease One And The Same?

The science treats aging and disease as points on a single trajectory, driven by the same process: chronic stress that, over years, wears on your heart, your metabolism, your immune system, and accelerates biological aging itself. Disease isn't a bolt from the blue that arrives on your 40th birthday - it's your reservoir finally overflowing. The body absorbs stress the way a reservoir absorbs water: it holds a great deal, adapts, and stays stable, right up until it can't.

Physiologists call this cumulative burden "allostatic load": the wear and tear that builds when the body's stress-response systems (the autonomic nervous system, stress hormones, the cardiovascular, metabolic, and immune systems) are switched on too often, stay on too long, or fail to reset.

This load produces a subclinical imbalance - measurable drift in multiple systems - well before any single organ crosses the line into diagnosable disease.


The Part Most People Skip: Getting Your Head In The Game

Here's what almost no one tells you: the reservoir isn't filled only by what happens to you. It's filled by how your mind meets what happens to you. The same stressor lands differently depending on your habitual patterns of thinking, how you see yourself, and whether your life feels like it's going somewhere.

How you appraise stress changes your cortisol, your inflammation, your heart rhythms, and the whole cumulative load your body carries. Change the mind that's interpreting the stress, and you change the wear it leaves behind.

That's why the deepest work I do isn't another supplement or a stricter meal plan. It's helping you shift the patterns of thought, the sense of self, and the sense of purpose that quietly decide how much of life's choppy waters your reservoir has to hold.

Getting your head in the game isn't a substitute for the medical care some conditions require. But it can lower the load your body is carrying right now, move the very markers we measure, and change the direction you're heading. That is not falling off a cliff at 40. That is taking the pen back and deciding to age more slowly and healthily.

The next time you hear someone say that their aches and pains are just a part of getting old, respond with: "'Just getting old' is the most expensive myth in medicine. It may be time to uncover what is really going on".

Until next time, scroll intentionally.

Dr. Dominika

Dr. Dominika Zarzeczny

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Hi! I'm Dr. Dominika Zarzeczny, ND

First inspired by the work of Dr. Gabor Mate, Dr. Dominika has focused much of her career on helping her patients connect the dots between early adversity and trauma and their impact on lifelong health and well-being. She knows that the reversal of chronic illness involves the nervous system, and so she has dedicated her practice to helping patients master their own nervous system to positively influence their mind and body, behaviours and ultimately health outcomes. Her explanation of disease doesn't pathologize or blame, but is nuanced, humanized and filled with hope. She trained with various psychologists and experts in the field of psychological trauma. She incorporates the principles of neuroscience, attachment theory, mindfulness, Polyvagal Theory and compassionate inquiry in her approach with patients. Combining these with her naturopathic training, she likes to say that she works at the intersection of science and human experience.

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